We want wtxid relay to be widely deployed before taproot activation, so it should be backported to v0.20.
The main difference from #18044 is removing the changes to the unbroadcast set (which was only added post-v0.20). The rest is mostly minor rebase conflicts (eg connman changed from a pointer to a reference in master, etc).
We’ll also want to backport #19569 after that’s merged.