Fixes #34237
Currently, there is a massive iwyu patch to try to implement modernize-deprecated-headers.
However, it does not work. For example https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/actions/runs/21012214401/job/60409645985#step:11:35548:
0
1+#include <assert.h>
2 #include <bench/bench.h>
Fix all issues by removing the patch and using a trivial and fast modernize-deprecated-headers.py instead.