Since #8210 we've been passing -dbus-runtime when configuring Qt, however D-Bus isn't used on macOS or Windows. So rather than blanket passing -dbus-runtime, only use D-Bus when building for linux, and disable it for Windows and macOS. This also saves some time building qt in depends (for windows or macOS).
This gist contains a diff of the symbols in a macOS bitcoin-qt after applying this change: https://gist.github.com/fanquake/317e5c9c7d1b5e37a0c1ce8001af18c4.