Follow-up to #11413 providing a base to build on for #19543:
- bugfix for bumpfeeraising a JSON error with explicit feerates, fixes issue #20219
- adds explicit feerate test coverage for bumpfee,fundrawtransaction,walletcreatefundedpsbt,send,sendtoaddress, andsendmany
- improves a few related RPC error messages and ParseConfirmTarget()/ error message
- fixes/improves the explicit fee rate information in the 6 RPC helps, of which 2 were also missing conf_targetsat/B units
This provides a spec and regression coverage for the potential next step of a universal sat/vB feerate argument (see #19543), as well as immediate coverage and minimum fixes for 0.21.