Fixes #29792
Adds a note to depends/README.md
that on older versions of macOS you may need to use GNU patch. I phrased as a troubleshooting hint, rather than make it a default recommendation, because:
- so far only I ran into it, and fanquake couldn’t reproduce
- BDB is only used for the legacy wallet, which itself is deprecated
- it seems better to replace as few default tools on macOS as possible
The instructions in build-osx.md
don’t even mention depends, so I don’t touch those here.