Add fast peer lookup by NodeId using m_node_id_map in CConnman.
Adds GetNodeStatsById and GetNodeStatsByIds in net.{cpp,h} for efficient internal access.
Introduces two new RPCs:
getpeerbyid(id): returns info for a single connected peerlistpeersbyids([ids], strict=false): batch query with optional strict mode
Includes functional tests covering expected behavior and edge cases.
Useful for tools that track peers by ID without scanning the full list, or for quickly looking up peer IDs seen in debug logs.