When working on https://github.com/bitcoin-core/secp256k1/issues/185, I noticed that the logic in memory_cleanse(), which is supposed to clear memory securely, is weird on MSVC. While it's correct, it's at least a code smell because the code clears the memory twice on MSVC. This weirdness was introduced by #11558.
This PR fixes the logic on MSVC and also improves the docs around this function. Best reviewed in individual commits, see the commit messages for more rationale. The second commit touches only comments.