Split from #35558, this makes it easier to observe compact block reconstruction performance by:
- At debuglevel=trace logging all missing TX's in a CMPCTBLOCK, and all missing TX's requested from us.
- Logging the sizes and counts of tx's used from the prefill, mempool, and extrapool.
- Logging the sizes and sources of redundant transactions in the prefill section of received
CMPCTBLOCKs.